In the past, mainstream movies such as Deepa Mehta’s “Fire” have addressed the suppressed desires of closeted women living and/or married in conservative families; places where heterosexuality is an immovable norm and any ‘other’ love brings stares or bias. More recently, ‘out and proud’ shows such as “Our Flag Means Death” have placed emphasis on how love defies age limits and socio-cultural backgrounds.
The short independent film “My Mother’s Girlfriend” explores both these aforementioned themes through the story of Renuka; she’s an elderly widow who strikes up a romance with Sadiya, who visits her at the vegetable market she works after hours. One day, as both women visit the seaside to celebrate Renuka’s birthday, they are noticed by her son Mangesh; he’s a a cab driver, and passing by the couple he grows suspicious of their bond. The rest of the movie features Mangesh as he tries to come to terms with this ‘unnatural relationship’ brewing between his God-fearing mother and another woman.
A Film Full of Heartwarming, Wholesome Images
“My Mother’s Girlfriend” features lots of unforgettably wholesome moments that made me smile. Despite its short run time, it leaves one with many lessons to ponder; this is especially true from Renuka, who is a free-spirited character. She teaches one to enjoy life to the fullest; she shows Sadiya to act on impulses, either romantic in nature or indulging in a cholesterol-rich feast on cheat day!
I also liked the use of metaphorical dialogue. One scene, when Renuka lies to Mangesh over the phone about her plans to visit the temple on her birthday whilst simultaneously wistfully glancing over at Sadiya in the distance is a great example. Even this brief exchange is enough to symbolise that to Renuka, her lover is nothing short of a goddess to worship—no matter how society or her own family might perceive their relationship.
Anju Alva Naik as Sadiya in My Mother’s Girlfriend. (Photo credit: NYIFF).
A Much-Needed Message of Acceptance
Sushma Deshpande and Anju Alva Naik as Renuka and Sadiya respectively share a charming and endearing chemistry; they both held my attention with their graceful expressions during conversations, or even during their muted interactions with each other. Deshpande, a veteran in Marathi cinema in particular is a show-stealer for me as the mischievous and confident Renuka. I found myself instantly falling for the infectious bubbly and jovial energy exuded by her. The cinematography by Rangoli Agarwal too brings alive the scenic beauty of the locations featured in the movie.
“My Mother’s Girlfriend” excels at not only warming the cockles of your heart, but its message of acceptance and defying norms is a welcome one that stays with you.
“My Mother’s Girlfriend” was reviewed as part of our continuing coverage of the New York Indian Film Festival.
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